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Sundays are Fundays: Weekends Too

I like weekends. Especially ones that start early. Things I liked about this weekend include:

  • A solution for my slight piercing infection. I was freaking out on Thursday night that I might need a nose amputation. Fear, be gone!
  • Haircut. Straightened for the day. See image below.
  • Wrapping up photo editing of the O.'s wedding with Becca. Stay tuned for the release of my favourites.
  • Live jazz at The Cellar with some of the greatest girls in Langley. If I had $500 to spare, or if anyone is thinking of spending that much on me for Christmas/my birthday, I would seriously consider becoming a member. It was also the second time in a week that I'd heard Jodi Proznick play. The first was at the Elektra concert last Saturday.
  • Sleeping in on Saturday morning.
  • Doing nothing for most of Saturday. Laughing with L. and A. on Saturday. Going for a walk in the sunshine on Saturday.
  • Helping a friend devise a plan to make a work party bearable. "Make a list in your head of all the alternative things you could have done in the same amount of time. So fifteen minutes in, you could have had a shower. An hour in, you could have driven to the border. Two hours in, you could have watched a movie..."
  • Dressing up for a Christmas party, looking at myself in the mirror and thinking, "I wish I could have told myself ten years ago that this is where I'm headed. There would have been a lot less stress..."
  • Waking up to sunshine again!
  • Picking up a near-friend at the ferry for a visit. Spending the day together and realizing that we're not just near-friends. We are friends.

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