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Cleaning Up the Site

For those of you who actually visit this blog instead of just reading it through a feed (Mom & Sarah and maybe a few others?), I updated the look! I also added my "Letters to Strangers" as a tab right at the top of the page, and then formatted that blog to have a unified look. I wanted something super streamlined.

Thoughts? Any other changes I should instigate?


Thom said…
I like streamlined! I read through a feed though, but still. The only thing missing is a sexy, commissioned header image drawn by a friend.
Beth said…
Hm. Who should I commission?


Draw away!

(assuming you wanted that invite.)
Thom said…
Ok ok, just stop begging me. Ha, if I think of something interesting I will draw it and you can decide if it fits your style.
afro-chick said…
i like this thom character.
yes, MORE sexy! bring the sexy back.
Lisa said…
Have you kept screenshots or some other record of your past layouts? I just wondered because you've had some really nice ones! I find this one streamlined, though less interesting than some of the others you've had. However, I like the variety and that you make regular changes. I'm old-school and still visit the blog :)
Anonymous said…
I like it. As always it reflects some aspe t of your character and mood at the time you chose it :-))
Beth said…
aban - thom is a great character.

lisa - i do not have screenshots from old versions...that's kind of a good idea. oh well.

anon - thanks. does reflect some aspect of my character...i'm into simplicity these days.
Lisa said…
Meh, I save all sorts of stuff that I never look back at...I was just curious. Where does that need to save things come from? I find it so hard to overcome.

I like that you're into simplicity these days. I have great ambitions to put the ideas of simplicity and downsizing to work when I move back to Gananoque and clean up my basement.
Anonymous said…
Like!! I don't read your blog through a feed although I do that for Letters to Strangers.

Which works because your L to S page freezes my web browser...

Shellie said…
I confess I was a bit miffed when I got on here and saw the change. I don't hate it though :)
Beth said…
jackie - it freezes your browser!?!

shellie - what did you like about the old version?
MLW said…
Having used your new blog layout I have one comment. Because I am lazy I miss having Dear Stranger at the top where I can see quickly if you have posted something new. Still adjusting to the plainness/simplicity

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