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Nothing Is Good If Other People Like It*

Twice today, I was in the car for about 15 minutes (I had to return the car to its fantastical owner tonight. I lost a vehicle, but I regained another person to hang out with). Both times I heard these three songs, which I happen to love. Apparently, sometimes I do agree with the masses.

Thank you, radio station, for making me happy.
Thank you, music, for giving me an excuse to sing and car-dance.

*tonight I watched the last half of Season 4 of The IT Crowd. I am obsessed with Roy's shirts. I always need to know what they say. This saying was on one of them. Another had a whale, and some writing. But the biggest upset of the night was a shirt with a maple leaf, the letters OMFG, and an explanation of said letters. I'm pretty sure the words were "Ontario Maple Flavours Group" - but that is still unconfirmed. And there was another line of text that I still don't know. This might keep me up tonight...Canadian content on my favourite British show!? I fell a little more in love.


Katie V. said…
Wow, a real old fashioned flirt-and-convert was attempted. And thwarted. Hope you weren't too far from home with the broken sandals (or from a shoe store).
Silas said…
that last song with paramore is a great song... well produced and performed. Pop needs more stuff like that!

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