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Last night I drank chai at 7:30pm (I HAD to. I was at an Indian restaurant.)

At 2:30am, as I finally fell asleep, I told myself I cannot pretend this was a good idea. And I cannot keep getting sucked in by the allure of a hot chai in the evening. But honestly, there are few things as delicious as a real steeped chai. The only hot drink that is on par is a foamy vanilla steamed milk, made with pure extract and a teaspoon of brown sugar.

Thankfully, I only work a half-day on Fridays.


(what's your all-time favourite drink?)

Comments

Steve C said…
A cup of chai at 5pm did me in. Short, restless night of sleep.
steph said…
whoa, the last post showing up on my feed was the one on Sherlock.. which btw, i'm a fan as well. though, the speed of his speaking plus accent plus relatively monotone means i have to listen extra carefully to hear everything he's saying).
Jill said…
Green milk tea with honey and 1/2 an order of tapioca pearls.
Beth said…
steve - sad to hear!

steph - REALLY sad to hear (about the missing reader feed. I don't understand why this is happening...)

jill - mmmm. i can see you drinking that. :D
hiukei said…
Soy chai tea latte
Soy caramel macchiato ( light syrup)

At home:
A cup of rich and smooth hot chocolate...hmm...

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